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2012-05-25 9-43-03-

Question Regarding Female Orgasm So my current SO does not have orgasms, and she says she never has. Not even with solo action. The sex is great, she is very much into it and we both are very satisfied, but I of course would really like her to orgasm. I am just wondering if bringing more kink into the sex might aid? Perhaps thatingredient is missing. She likes a little choking, and hair pulling as well as being spanked ... she has brought up being tied up as well. If this is the wrong forum I apologize, but wonder if anyone has encountered this and if there is anything to help ... or, as long as it's enjoyable for us both should I just not worry about it?
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2012-08-30 4-37-04-

Welp. It's probably psychological. I imagine that she has a mental block that keeps her from cumming. Could be physical, too--but usually when you're a grownup and you've never had an orgasm, it means you've got something going on upstairs that keeps you from it, rather than downstairs--if ya get me. I'm not saying she's a prude or anything. Maybe she just has a hard time relaxing. I can't imagine not being able to cum while masturbating. All you have to do is be diligent. If all else fails and she doesn't care whether or not she cums, well--can you accept that she is an orgasm-free lover and move on? That may be how it ends up. Oh, well. Good luck, I guess.
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    Hmmm.... Im thinking she should try talking to her Doc. There are some testosterone creams and such that can be applied to her "area" ;) beforehand and might help in getting her a little more ready for an O. I think adding more kink is an excellent idea even if it doesn't achieve an O but just enhances some of your sex. And also your communication and trust and everything else that goes along with a kinky relationship. but the lack of O's to me sounds like a Biological issue and her Doc may be able to help.
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    2012-12-31 10-49-43

    Thanks I do think we will try adding more kink, I really like the scenario you detailed below my post! Everything is great except for the O. We have good communication, and frequently flirt when not together. She is aroused all the time (she is very wet for the duration of our sexual encounters), and we are both open to trying new things. Maybe as MsPribyla says, it may just be the way it is, but I have never come across this situation before. I may talk to her about talking with her doc. Thanks all for the advice.
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    If she cannot bring herself to orgasms, I doubt you'll have better luck.
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    everyone is different for some reason i rarely cum from masturbating, and yet Hubby turns me into a puddle every single time, and he can just whisper in my ear and make me cum. not sure why she can't orgasm...maybe you could try some of that new KY female enhancing product that i'm thinking of trying when i masturbate. it warms things up or makes them tingle or something. i can't remember.
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    Waste of x bucks. I bought it. it did NOTHING for me.maybe kinda tingly for like a minute. And then nothing. Just giving you my opinion on the product.
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    thanks! thanks for the info. last thing i want to do is spend thirty bucks for something that won't work and will just sit in my drawer gathering dust. have you tried the him and her one?
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    Crap.... repackaged mentholatum or peppermint or something. This product is the kinkiest that most vanilla people will come to "sensation" play, therein lies the product's success in the market. A total waste of money imo and potentially very irritating for some folks.
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    Actually it has some niacin in it... so it probably has a flushing / engorging effect loy at the clitoris when applied... So I corrected myself a bit here. Nonethless, I'm still not a fan of these creams nor are any women I've known.
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    i havethat is decent but i agree, it's not THAT great. just kinda tingly for a few minutes.
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    2013-11-14 14-32-49

    Maybe try a few things Like a full body massage before sex. Have you tried long and drawn out foreplay? Before and during sex, I view it as a sory arc, ther's a beginning, anticipation and wonder, the start of the action, the rush to the climax, and the prelude. My ex never masturbates, she wanted me to pleasure her instead, so I dunno. But I find women's orgasms seem to be stronger and more fulfilling with foreplay.
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    2013-11-26 3-09-56-

    Yes We have long drawn out foreplay sessions, which is all part of the fun for us together. Foreplay almost always begins long before the clothes even start to come off. From my past experiences I can say the sex with my current SO is much more intense, but she is the onlywho cannot achieve O ...
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    2013-12-05 1-54-18-

    Great! That's great, good to hear people are makin some foreplay! And THANK YOU for the before clothes are off part! But maybe it's mind over matter, does she really need to have an orgasm if she's having fun? My ex didn't think sex was over until I came, but shit, I had pleanty of fun w/o cumming.
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    Agreed There are sessions where we go for so long that I am just too tired to have an orgasm, but could care less because the time leading up to my exhaustion was so much damn fun. It may just be what it is. We both definitely have fun and enjoy ourselves, which is I suppose really the most important aspect. Thanks much for the input!
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    2013-12-14 5-44-13-

    I had the same problem I to couldn't orgasm and I would try everything possible...thannight I was out with my girlfriends and I ran into my ex boyfriend...who I still had some feelings for and didn't have closure on why we broke up...So I ended up in a fight with him(verbal) and finally found closure...went home and bam from that day on I have had an orgasm everytime my husband and I fool around...So I think it is totally psychological and when she is ready to let go she most likely well..Thats just my thought...I hope it all works out!
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    Im having the same problem. While I adore sex, I come close to an O but never have I can havemasturbating and love having sex with my man, but idk what it is. Something bothering me maybe? hm...
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    2013-12-21 16-47-03

    try masturbating while you have sex :) i love to get fucked and rub my clit at the same time, and it makes me cum hard.
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