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2011-02-08 20-33-24

I resent! Well, I had a great vacation. It was only a week, but it felt like a month. It was fantastic. When I got home yesterday afternoon, I get this message from my straight guy friend who's doing this fundraiser. "Hey, me tonight." Here's my resentment: he's pulling the "friendship card" to get me to go to his fundraiser for his straights-for-gays charity. This from the guy who wouldn't donate $5 for the guide-dog fundraiser. I wasn't going to go and I'm not on board with the organization, but since he said "Aside from getting married, this is the most important thing I've done in my life. If you never go to any of my things for the next years, go to this " He's committed to fill 700 seats and he's no where close. I resent him for using our friendship to get me to go, instead of just letting me do what I'm comfortable with. I bought ticket, and then I come to work to a year-end on notice, which means that I might be kept late on the fundraiser night, so I may not be able to go after all. I confess that I do not resent being on for work this month because it gave me an out. I resent the emotional manipulation / arm twisting. But I also forgive him, because what are friends for if not to cushion the blow a little when you stumble? There, I've just used up a whole week's worth of resentment, confession and forgiveness.
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2011-02-11 4-49-05-

Don't sweat it You did the politiy correct friendship thing by buying a ticket but that does not obligate you to go. You therefore has showed your support financially but if you don't want to go then you don't have to show your support emotionally. You might just let him know that you might not make it because you have to work. You may have some other friends who would like to go and possibly sell them some tickets. That would show your sincere in supporting your friends interest. When doing fund raisers (I have done tons for the ) sometimes you have to rely on family and friends to buy the tickets. I was never offended if they bought a ticket but did not show up at the event. I was grateful for any financial support they could give. Hope this helps.
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    mckendree

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    2011-02-12 16-36-24

    I did buy a ticket and I did tell him I may not be able to attend. I will not sell tix b/c I actually do not support the cause. I'm not on board at all. I wouldn't be involved at all if he hadn't played the friendship card - and he KNOWS my stand on this - we had discussed it numerous times in the past few years... but he does tend to hear what he wants to hear.
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  • lung

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    2011-02-16 6-20-08-

    why do you object to the straights-for-gays charity? And what is it? I mean, what do they do?
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    2011-03-02 17-15-58

    you hit the nail on the head! they do not have a clearly defined mission. I've even asked what exactly they're going to do - is it a visibility organization? How is this organization going to facilitate societal change? I have NEVER gotten a straight (cough) answer on this in the past three years. I also know from the years I worked in fundraising that there's only so much funds in a pool, and all the charities are competing for the same dollars. I see a new charity like this as taking $$ from PFLAG, EGALE and other organizations that are already established and are already making a positive difference. I also don't support my friend's insistence to start this completely from scratch because he doesn't have great management skills. I love him, but he's making a ton of rooky mistakes because he wants to be the in charge. I would be much more enthused if he was doing a fundraiser for PFLAG or the 519 Community center. I'd sell the shit out of tickets for something like that. here's the website. Would you like to take a look-see and tell me what you think of their mission statement? / they also have a f group.
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    mission statement: "The HSSE is a heterosexual voice of equality in regards to same-sex issues. Our mandate is to bring our message of tolerance and understanding to society, by correcting misinformation and cultural myths which negatively affect civil rights surrounding same-sex issues. We enable heterosexual participation, providing the means for all people to develop and demonstrate their support for same-sex equality."
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    2011-06-12 8-00-31-

    I KNOW!!!!!!! WTF! Like an official endorsement of queers.
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  • damuth

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    2011-06-26 21-15-58

    And PFLAG does that My issue with flyingdog's friend's group is that they say they support us while clearly stating they are not of us. It reminds me of this allies group when I was an undergrad. We were trying to decide on a ribbon or something so that people would know we were allies and could talk to us. Someone suggested pink and someone else rainbow and there were some objections in the group, because they were worried people might think they were gay. Ugh. So not supportive. There are a number of ways straights can - and do - support gay rights, but when they feel the need to flaunt their heterosexuality, it just rubs me the wrong way. I like seeing "straight but not narrow" pins and all, but for someone to issue a statement saying they are speaking with a heterosexual voice and emphasizing over and over again that they are straight makes me feel like they're looking for a pat on the back for their good deed: "Oh look at me, I'm straight, but I'm going to tell people I support the gays, and did I mention that I'm straight helping gays?"
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  • granito

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    I liked the T-Shirts. It's a clever slogan. There were a bunch of people sporting "straight not narrow" t-shirts at pride this year.
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    2011-08-31 23-23-03

    exactly, thank you. it rubs me the wrong way.
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    Lillian

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    2011-10-10 13-25-46

    Yes, exactly, and it's irritating, that "Thank me for not actively bashing you" attitude. Bleah.
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  • kehm

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    2011-12-06 12-19-44

    This I get. And totally agree. If you want to just show people that there are het-gay supporters, what is the money for? Take the hets out to lunch to thank them for their support when it's just the right thing to do anyway? I'd have asked him what the funds are going toward. That would be the deciding factor in buying the tix for me.
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  • guggenheim

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    2012-01-21 17-38-17

    the funds would go "towards the organization to further it's mission" Clear as paste.
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    2012-03-19 19-21-25

    um...yeah. Did he stop to consider that that may be why he didn't sell enough? Last year I was invovled in a fundraiser for the non-profit I work for. I learned that if you tell people exactly what their money goes to (ex: a shelter for teens in this case) then they are far more likely to give.
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    2012-05-27 9-55-23-

    This has been my experience too. Working for planet aid I found it very helpful to post pics and stories about the ren's Town Milambanyana (sp?)which was funded with the proceeds of the store. "What is planet aid? Well! Here's a pamphlet, there's some pics and our financial contribution information is on our website!" I decided not to be involved with this organization last year and I have since withheld my opinions and suggestions to him because the conversation is just too frustrating.
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    2012-08-20 16-17-38

    a quote from the site: "In an increasingly divisive society, far too often the voices that are quietest are co-opted by purposes and plans other than their own. We have all known too many individuals who feel that their perspectives are lumped in with those of "all the other normal people". The truth is that there has never been an ignorant and hateful majority of straight people. That alleged closed-minded majority is the deliberate creation of parties with their own, very narrow agenda."
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    2012-10-02 2-44-53-

    another thought The site doesn't mention if it is a non-profit. But maybe you don't classify like that in Canada? That would also keep me from giving if the money raised just gives him some dough.
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    2012-11-03 11-32-44

    I don't know if they've registered so maybe they AREN'T actually a non-profit/charity. this is part of what I mean by jumping the gun.
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    2012-12-20 23-55-41

    ah. normal ppl. how quaint. (Did it occur to them to challenge the word choice "normal"?)
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    yeah. remember that rant a few weeks ago about how queer folks shouldn't gay it up at pride because you can't be taken seriously by the normal folks with your wang hanging out? That comment was made by a member of this organization. However, another member said "Just who decided what's normal anyway?" This is also where the "Hey straight folks! Go to gay bars!" rant came from. I like the term "heterocentric" to describe what's going on here.
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    2013-03-12 16-55-18

    my thought. why don't we (the gay) try to find allies wherever we can?
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    2013-04-07 10-07-02

    I am wary of people who declare themselves to be my allies when the treaty terms are this murky. Why not seek out the established queer leaders and offer your resources? Why not work together with other structures so you don't have the burden of start-up costs?
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  • mckenney

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    2013-05-14 20-26-41

    How much of an ally is someone who has to point out that they're not "one of us"? To me, an ally shouldn't feel the need to constantly point out that they're not gay.
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