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2011-08-15 14-16-35

So i dont think i have ever posted in here before but I lurk alot. I was wondering about something that some of you may be able to lend some insite to. I, not to long ago, came to realize that i enjoy causing slight pain. I found this out a couple of years ago but i guess i kind of ignored it since it was with my ex and she asked me to cause her pain. Such as holding her down using all my strength, pulling her hair, spanking that sort of thing. Basiy overpowering her to the point of causeing pain to sum it up. She always said she loved the way that after sex she felt like she had just been "used and abused" Before her i didnt really do much of this. Now jump forward x years and my current GF. She is more of a conservative in the bedroom type. Not really a think out of the box type. My problem comes into the fact that I really really enjoyed myself with the ex. Not wanting to go back to her or anything just I had a good time. I am really into my GF and have plans that this may one day be my wife so making it work with her is important to me. I dont want to be wanting something else from somewhere else ever. Anyway is it possible to ease my girl friend into this type of .......well i will use the word "play"? Is there a way to go about talking about it with out it seeming like i want to hurt her. Basiy i dont know how to explain why i get pleasure from this. If i notice even for a secound some sort of discomfort i get turned on so much. I am not an average guy so this happens every time but that first discomfort for her is not enough to completely do it for me.
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2011-09-09 11-30-21

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    2011-11-06 11-12-26

    I would say... Examine what it is you really love about this girl above the last one. I say this because I was young and single and had most of my "fun" with kinky girls. then married a "vanilla" woman. x yrs. later got divorced, dated kinky girls, married a vanilla girl again. My point is if you are really lucky and exhausted, you might spend x% of your life in sexual play of some sort. The x%+ of your life happens outside the bedroom. Make sure you love x% of what there is about her and the x% will take care of itself.
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    2012-04-08 21-25-54

    Well there you go... and ruin my words of wisdom with logic. It's all a crap shoot but you can increase your odds of sucsess by accepting someone even though they may not live up to your ideals. I'm beginning to realize my "full of shit" meds just kicked in... sorry everyone.
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    2012-07-09 20-18-48

    Yeah i know this, Thats why leaving her is not an option and has never even crossed my mind. Just attempt to open her eyes to something i enjoy. I tried to get her to attempt anal, going on x months and still a no go. Hasn't made me give up yet lol.
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    Well there a few options... but they all down to communicating your desires. The worst thing to do is supress these desires and think they will go away. Maybe for some they do but most find that they come back stronger and many things that appear to be wants are actually needs. Is it causing pain (seeing discomfort) that you enjoy or is it the undeniable rush of being in control? Most dominants will say it's the later, pain beingbehicle to achieve it. Explaining to her that you like "power exchange" in a sexual context will likely be much easier than saying that hurting her gets your cock hard. Power exchange implies consent, she decides to hand over that power and allow you to be in charge of her, spank her, opull her hair, her names, pin her down... you name it. A recommend you offer the opportunity for her to take control as well. Explore both sides of the coin. And most importantly delve into her sexual fantasies and explore and fulfil as many of them as you can.
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    I also think that once she knows You enjoy inflicting a little pain, she will respond to it better (over react). This may gey you a little more aroused, and will feed the relationship. For all you know she may be supressing her reaction to pain, because she doesn't want you to feel bad for hurting her.
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